Friday, September 23, 2005

Blog Spam as Emotional Rape

There is no greater pain for me than receiving spam comments.

When I hear the ding that heralds the arrival of new email I get all excited. And then it's an extra treat to see that it's an anonymous comment.

Who could it be from? An old friend who has caught wind of my site. Or better yet, a wandering blogger who was so inspired that they had to leave a comment. Could they be a kindred spirit? A soul mate? The One?

And then I read crap like this:

I don't want to read about immigration. But Canadian immigration? You just signed your own death warrant Sonny Jim. If you ever swing by again...(shakes fist in air menacingly)

This doesn't even make sense to me. What does it mean to be able to "secret shop"? If I ever had to need to shop surreptitiously, then I'll click on your link. But until that day comes, I'm going to buy my goods out in the open the way good Christian folk do.

Maybe I'm naive. But I just want you to know, whoever you may be, that you've broken my heart.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

DEMOfall 05 take three--nothing non-linear
This is my final wrap-up from DEMOfall 05. The first two installments are here and here , and photo gallery here .
, Hey, you have a great blog here! I'm definitely going to bookmark you!
I have a cat supply site/blog. It pretty much covers cat supply related stuff.
Come and check it out if you get time :-)

1:31 AM  
Blogger rayray said...

I feel your pain.
I got spammed, but an actual user name appeared!


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8:25 PM

btw: it was for a webcam dating site.


1:24 PM  
Blogger OzzyC said...

You could turn on verification. Check for more info.

3:02 PM  
Anonymous said...

Nu blog, eh? Better permalink to it from somewhere or else Google will never find it... Maybe if it's funny the dirty boyz of frinktank will give it the time of day in our linkblog. Or, you know, we'll just keep smoking dope and killing people by remote.

7:38 PM  
Blogger June said...

God Damn it! I got spam on a post about spam. Those blammers have bested me yet again.

Thanks for the suggestions Ozzy. Verification in the Hizzle!!

11:38 PM  
Anonymous kris said...

just wanted to let you know you made me laugh out loud...your prize is in the mail

12:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i enjoy reading your blog. you are both funny and insightful.
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suck it!

6:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

About Emotional Rape.....

It is a heartless con game they play to keep their need for sexual supply filled. They know the wordS to say and the role to play to manipulate you into a relationship with them, but at the first sign that you are figuring them out, they will turn on you as if you were nothing.
No, otherS do not understand because they were not in your shoes.
To the legal system and people on the outside of the situation, it is easier for them to buy in to the explanation that the narcissist gives, that you are just scorned and want revenge, if you voice your pain and trauma.
A man can stalk a woman for years, set the stage for her vulnerability with manipulating circumstances and then use her confusion and distress to literally devour her mentally with all sorts of false compassions and scripted lines. He just moves on to the next person he finds to take advantage of.
It is the same grooming tactics used by pedophiles, but if you happen to be of age, no one cares.
It doesn't matter that may be you never dated before getting married, or that you may already be in an abusive situation and you were exploited, conned, and used.
The legal system is blind to it.
Some people have actually come forward to expose these types of narcissists that go around spreading diseases, and exploiting women or men. The perpetrators will do whatever they can to discredit their target, they will file false charges, file frivolous law suits, that is if they find an attorney completely hard up for a client, or maybe one that gets off on hurting the innocent victims themselves. Yes, they find the most asinine lawyer they can.

What does it say about our judicial system whenever they can't even see the system being manipulated by these types of victimizers? You would be surprised how many of them get away with stalking someone and then turning it around on their victims.
They make their victims get rid of any evidence during the grooming of the target, while they keep records of contact with them to use later as their defense.
Yes, this happens!
In one incident a man who was exposed on a exposing predator site in January of 2007.
This man actually coerced his victim throughout the relationship telling her repeatedly to get rid of proof of contact, told her to do the contacting to keep his number off her phone records, then used his records of her calls to file a harassment charge on her later.
This was vindictive revenge.
We need to be aware of what these sick individuals are capable of, even more, our legal system needs to get a clue!
Wake up America!

Victims suffer devastating symptoms like PTSD
and it is real!

11:28 PM  

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